Journaling is the most popular way to practice gratitude, but it's far from the only one — and if writing isn't sticking for you, a different exercise might. Below are 11 gratitude exercises drawn from positive-psychology research and everyday practice. Try a few, keep what works, and ignore the rest. (For the evidence behind why these help, see our guide to the science of gratitude.)
1. Three good things
Each night, write down three things that went well today and why. This is one of the most-studied exercises in positive psychology — in Seligman's research it produced gains in happiness that lasted up to six months. Keep them specific.
2. The gratitude letter
Write a letter to someone who helped you and never got a proper thank-you. Delivering it in person (a “gratitude visit”) produces one of the largest short-term happiness boosts of any exercise studied. We have a full guide to writing a gratitude letter.
3. Mental subtraction
Imagine your life without something good in it — a friendship, an opportunity, a place you love. Picturing its absence makes its presence vivid again, counteracting the way we take good things for granted. Researchers have found this “It's a Wonderful Life” technique can boost positive feelings more than simply listing blessings.
4. The gratitude jar
Keep a jar and slips of paper somewhere visible. Whenever something good happens, jot it down and drop it in. On a hard day — or at year's end — read them. It's a physical, low-effort way to build a record of good moments.
5. A savoring walk
Take a 20-minute walk and deliberately notice things you appreciate — a tree, a smell, a sound, a stranger's kindness. Savoring stretches a good experience out and trains your attention toward the positive.
6. Gratitude meditation
Spend five quiet minutes holding one thing you're grateful for in your attention, noticing how it feels in your body. Our beginner's gratitude meditation walks through a simple version.
7. The thank-you text
Send one genuine, specific message of thanks to someone today. Expressing gratitude strengthens relationships — and the other person almost always values it more than you expect.
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8. Contrast journaling for hard days
On a low day, don't force positivity. Instead, name one small thing that was simply okay. This honest approach is more sustainable than forced cheer — more in our guide to gratitude for anxiety.
9. Gratitude at meals
Use an existing daily ritual as a cue. Before eating, take a breath and name one thing you're thankful for. Anchoring gratitude to a habit you already have makes it far more likely to stick.
10. The gratitude photo
Once a day, photograph one thing you're grateful for. The act of looking for it — and framing it — is the exercise. Over a week you'll have a small gallery of good.
11. Mental “thank you” rounds
Waiting in line or lying awake? Silently run through a few people or things you're grateful for. It's gratitude with zero setup, and it quietly reshapes your default thoughts.
How to choose
You don't need all eleven. Pick one that fits your day — writers might start with three good things, social people with the thank-you text, restless minds with the savoring walk. The best exercise is the one you'll actually repeat. New to gratitude? Begin with our beginner's guide.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What are some good gratitude exercises?
Effective, research-informed gratitude exercises include 'three good things' (writing three things that went well each night), the gratitude letter, mental subtraction (imagining life without something good), a gratitude jar, savoring walks, and gratitude meditation. The best one is whichever you'll repeat consistently.
What is the most effective gratitude exercise?
The 'three good things' exercise is one of the best-studied, producing happiness gains that lasted up to six months in Seligman's research. The 'gratitude visit' (delivering a thank-you letter in person) produces the largest short-term boost. Consistency matters more than which exercise you choose.
How often should I do gratitude exercises?
A short daily or near-daily practice works best — consistency beats intensity. Even a few minutes most days is enough. You can rotate between exercises to keep it fresh, but pick a regular time or cue so the habit sticks.